Wednesday, July 15, 2009

5th Lesson in BES 2100

Stefen, Kelvin and I met up before class for lunch to ensure that we won't be late for class. After we have our lunch around the college, we went straight to class and initially we are early 1 minute. What a joke to tell others that we are early by 1 minute~
The first thing Mdm.Suma announced is our results for negotiation test last Sunday on the 5th of July. My partner, Willow and I both have 15% for this negotiation test. Is it good enough for us to pass this module I ponder~
Quite a good news for me when Mdm.Suma announced that the highest score is 15%~ That makes me ensure that I have done quite a good job in the negotiation test. In my own heart, I congratulate myself!
Soon, she mention about the precis that she asked us to summarized on the day of negotiation test. Not forgeting to do the homework, and today's lesson is linked to the precis, which is Emotional Intelligence and Social Intelligence developed by Goleman. Emotional Intelligence is how we control our own emotions. Whereas Social Intelligence is how we socialize with each other in the public.
She taught us about the eight types of emotions, which is anger, disgust, sadness, fear, enjoyment, love, surprise and shame. After that, she asked us to think more types of emotions such as irritating, revenge, confusion, and jaded. After this individual activity, we have a short break.
When we are back from the break, Mdm.Suma ordered us to formed a group of 2. Choose someone who we can share our secret with and my partner will be Kelvin as he is my bestest best friend in this class. Kelvin become partner A and I become partner B~ After all the groups are ready, Mdm.Suma asked all the partner A to follow her out to the room and they starts to discussed outside. All partners B sitting in the class and we can heard they laugh loudly and i wonder what is all happening outside.
When they are back, being partner B, we are called outside and Mdm.Suma starts to give instructions. We, being partner B have to try to critize partner A after they tell us a secret. When we settle down in the class, Kelvin starts to tell me a secret and I got shocked! Eventually, I tried to critized him for his secret and I felt that he feel embarassed for the secret that he had kept for decades.
After my criticism, Mdm.Suma called all partners B to go out of the class and she told us that we have to console partner A for the criticism that we have done! I tried to console him but I smell rat afterward because he forgave me so fast that I could not believe myself. I thought I was so persuasive that he would forgive me. However, after this activities end, he told me truthfully that he just told me a big fat lie secret. I was thinking, 'no wonder he could forgive me that fast for my criticism'~
After this activity, Mdm.Suma also touched abit about Script that we are going to learn how to do in the next few weeks. This is an example about the Case Study where the score is 20% which is held on the 12th August 2009~
It's around 6 and it's time to go home! Yahoo~~

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